Stand In Event Planning
Two best friends with a passion for event planning decided to create a blog to share ideas and inspirations, if you are looking for something particular, ask us and we will find an inspiration for you!
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LOVE this idea: “We went to the local rock quarry and picked up a container of roughly 300 stones for $9. We brought them home, washed them off and sprayed them with a clear shellac. Then my aunt, with gorgeous handwriting, wrote all the names and table numbers. The final product ended up being a simple, cheap, nature chic place card! People enjoyed searching for their name in the giant heart we had set up outside the tent!”
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in LOVE with these folded origami heart invatations.
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Valentines day is almost here, how about making your hunny a heart shaped cake?
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Cheep and easy DYI Save the Date magnents
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circles have always enjoyed a universal perception of having strong magical properties. And with such magical power, a ring around the heart would surely protect a person from evil spirits. It doesn’t work, of course, but that’s superstition folks.
Long, long ago, before Cartier and Mikimoto, people believed the third finger had a vein running directly to the heart. And as the left hand is a bit closer to the heart than the right, they placed wedding rings on the third finger of the left hand1.
In chiromancy (a combination of astrology and palmistry) the third (Apollo) finger relates to the heart. Wearing a ring on that finger would not only protect the heart from evil spirits, but also enhance the life of the wearer by transmitting energy to the heart.
Following this line of quacky reasoning, two rings would presumably double the enhancement. Take note, however, that encasing the whole finger in a metal sheath would cause muscular atrophy. But quacks were more interested in metaphysical things and it was the custom for physicians, herbalists and other healers, to use their third finger when applying medicinal ointment or powder to their patients. Using this finger strengthened the effectiveness of the cure.
The practice was pretty much universal. Japanese call the ring-finger kusuri-yubi, in German Arzt-Finger, in Latin digitus medicinalis and in Old Anglo-Saxon it was called lech-man, all meaning ‘medical finger’, because:
Long ago doctors applied medical ointment with this finger.
Sure, any finger could have been used but this finger seems ‘natural’ because the hand can be steadied by the middle finger and the little finger whilst applying the medicine. Being closer to the thumb, the first and second fingers are generally used more for other things (such as fingers crossed that the marriage is a happy one!), so the third finger is slightly more sensitive to touch, making it more suitable for delicate tasks like applying ointment.or…
Long ago people believed that a nerve or vein ran directly from this finger to the heart.
Roman doctors called this vena amoris - the vein of love. If medicine was applied by this finger, then the medicine would be enhanced by the mystical energy of the physician’s heart. Medicine has its roots in magic (medico - to heal by magic) and the German Arzt (physician) originally meant magician.or…
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If medicine is applied to this finger, then the medicine would shoot directly to the heart. Nice idea.
or…
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Traditionally it used to be worn on the right thumb, until King James VI levied a tax on people wearing wedding rings. He defined a ‘wedding ring’ as “…the bridelope of the riht puma…”. To avoid paying tax, people moved their wedding rings to their left ring-finger.
Yes, we’ve just made that up.or…
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…something else.
Whatever the original reasoning was, this finger became rather special and the natural choice to bear a wedding ring.
Interestingly (well, OK, maybe not so interesting), recent studies2 suggest that the length of the ring-finger, relative to the length of other fingers, is determined by the prenatal exposure to higher levels of testosterone. And higher levels of testosterone can affect one’s ability in sport, language acquisition, susceptibility to autism, analytical superiority, sexual orientation, visual-motor skills, etc. A much greater brain-shaping influence is likely to be one’s experiences, opportunities and environment, but the ring-finger length ratio remains an appealing study for psychologists.
Some cultures have different traditions. The Irish, for example, have an interesting ‘code’, where the position of a ring can send a subtle message to prospective suitors. (See Claddagh Ring.)
As most people are right-handed, the right hand is used more frequently for work, so not as touch sensitive as the left. And because the right hand does more work, it poses a greater risk of damage to any jewelry. Watchmakers put the winder on the right hand side of the watch face, because most people wear their watches on the ‘safer’ left wrist. A groom stands to the right of his bride so his stronger right arm is free to ward off potential kidnappers. (Jewish weddings see the groom standing to the left, based on Ps. 45:9)
There is no right or wrong way to wear a wedding ring, and the wedding ring has no magical properties where-ever it is worn. It is, however, a way for you to show the world that you have found a loving partner, a friend with whom you can share the rest of your life.
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